12 Clear Signs He’s More Than Just Being Nice

Is he attracted to me or just being nice? I bet this is a question that popped into your mind at least once when you liked a guy, but you hit a dead end street because you didn't know how to react or what to do. Sometimes it's just hard to decide whether a guy likes you or if he is just being nice to you. The signals he is sending are so confusing because they are easy to interpret wrongly. You just can't seem to decide what he's actually thinking. Well, we see all of your comments and we are here to help. Read this article to the end and pay attention to the given signs. If he shows you half or more of the signs listed here, then you can be sure that he likes you and not just being nice. Is he attracted to me or just being nice? Be aware that not many guys will get up the courage to come to you and tell you straightforward that they like you and want to be with you. Not all of them are that brave, but what they are most likely going to do is give you hints with the way they behave around you. Why do guys do that? Well, first of all, most guys suffer from the fear of rejection. Is there anything worse than getting rejected or hearing or realizing that someone doesn't like you and doesn't want to be with you? That hurts and we all want to avoid it, yet it happens to all of us. So it's no wonder that it's so easy to mix up when he's really attracted you or as just being nice. You have to keep track of all the subtle signs because as I've already said, they're not going to say it right to your face. So here we go.

• Number one, he wants to know all about you. He wants to know every detail of your life and every interest you have. Okay, this may sound a bit creepy and stalkerish, but I mean this in a cute and head over heels way. He'll ask all kinds of questions, from those random ones to personal ones, not just to keep the conversation alive, because he genuinely wants to know all those things. Believe me, if he was just being nice, he would never show such interest in your life. He would spend time with you in conversation just to be polite and not because he wants you, and the difference between the two is huge.
• Number two, his pupils dilate. You can't beat science. It is proven that our brain works in a way that our pupils dilate when we see something we like. So the next time you catch a guy you like looking at you, pay attention to his pupils. If they are bigger than what they normally would be, then he definitely has the hots for you and is being nice because he likes you.
• Number three, he pays attention to his looks. He will do anything it takes to make you notice him. Don't be surprised if he develops a sense of fashion all of a sudden or gets a new haircut or does something with his facial hair. If he likes you, he will do everything possible to make himself attractive to you. On the other hand, if a guy doesn't have any romantic interest in you, he would never go to that trouble to impress you. He will hang out with you in his old T-shirt or the clothes he wears around the house. If he does this, you can be sure that he is probably only being nice to you because he likes you just as a friend.
• Number four, he stares at you. Maybe even longer than he should, but look at it this way, he is in love. He can't help it. There is an interesting fact considering eye contact. They say when a guy is into a girl, he will glance at her every chance he gets, and if she catches him staring, he will keep his eyes locked on hers to let know he is interested in her. A smile or two is not excluded either. But there is another side to the coin, and it's an ugly one. If he is not attracted to you, you'll probably see it right away. It can happen that he looks at you by accident, but if he does, his eye contact won't last and he will look away almost immediately. So don't confuse the two and you'll know whether he is attracted to you or is just being nice.
• Number five, he pays attention to every word you say. He'll listen and not just to be polite, but because he really wants to. He is really interested in the things you're saying, and he can't get enough. That's why you can talk for hours without getting sick of each other. He will listen to even the most boring stories with the smallest details. And the thing is, he'll let you know he's listening and he'll ask you questions. You'll see that he's enjoying it. Guys who are only being nice and polite will also listen to you because they don't want to be rude, but they won't remember a thing you've said simply because they don't care enough about you to remember anything.
• Number six, he will stand up for you. If he sees or hears that someone is bad-mouthing you, he will raise his voice and defend you. He will stand up for you whether you are there or not. A man who is attracted to you will never let anyone hurt you in any way. Even if it's someone who is dear to him, he will take your side. But when a man is only being nice to you without any attraction, he won't meddle that much in things that don't concern him. Either he will keep quiet and walk away, or he'll just say a word or two in your defense out of politeness, but without any real effect.
• Number seven, he will get a bit jealous. He is attracted to you and he doesn't want to lose you to another man, especially if he hasn't let you know he likes you and is waiting for the perfect moment to do something about it. You can be 100% positive that he is attracted to you if he is jealous. On the other hand, a man who sees you only as a friend will not get jealous because he has no reason to. He won't care if you're talking to another man or even flirting because he is not interested interested in you in that way. He is only being nice to you and nothing more.
• Number eight, he wants you to be a part of his life. You will know a lot about him. He'll tell you his secrets and he'll confide in you because he trusts you completely. You'll be a part of his life because his intention is to keep you in his life for a bit longer. His whole life will be about you and not even a day will pass when you don't talk or text each other. He wants to keep you and communicate with you for as long as he can. Someone who is just being nice will have his own life aside from you. He won't introduce you to his personal life. Even when you talk or text, it won't be personal and you won't know that much about him and his life, except for the ordinary things that everyone knows.
• Number nine, he will imagine his future with you. He will do anything in his power to ensure that you're going to be together and hang out in the future. In the beginning, those will be short term plans such as dinners and going to the movies, but later on, those will be trips, concerts, etc. This This is him giving you subtle signs that he's attracted to you and wants to have a future with you. If he's not attracted to you, he won't make any plans with you.
• Number ten, he will act differently around you. Maybe he'll even be nervous because it's a lot of pressure. He likes you and he will really try hard to impress you. The best way to test this is to see how he acts around the people he loves. If you see he's acting differently around you, a bit nervous or clumsy or trying too hard, then you can be positive that he has feelings for A guy who is just being nice will treat you like he treats everyone else around him. He won't be clumsy or nervous. He'll just be himself as he always is.
• Number eleven, he will do anything just to see you happy. Your happiness means the world to him. That's why men who are in love do things they wouldn't normally do, just to see the person next to them smile. Nothing will be hard for him to do. He will even be ready to change his habits to make you happy. He will go against his will if it will make you smile. Of course, he won't be a complete sucker and let you manipulate him, but as long as it's reasonable, he will do it. A guy who is not interested in you won't give you such pleasure. He won't care about your wishes and the things that make you happy because for him, your smile is no different from anybody else's.
• Number twelve, he will support you, literally in everything that you do. He will be the guy who will tell you that you can do anything that you wish. He will be the voice that will keep you from giving up on your dreams. He will be the one who will be your support when you doubt yourself. Even if you fall apart, he will be there for you to help you pick up the broken pieces of your heart and spirit. He will put them back together and make you stronger than ever. He will do all these things because he cares about you and he likes you more than anything. Someone who is not attracted to you wouldn't go to all that trouble. He likes you, but not enough and not in that way. He will be there for you as a friend, but when you come home at night, you're going to be alone.
• Conclusion. A man who is attracted to you and not being nice is a man who will be there by your side and will never let you leave his sight. If you made it this far, it means you are a true fan and we really appreciate your support. If you are really serious about learning the secret of how to make any man obsessed with you, we highly recommend checking out the other articles. It's a professional and powerful psychology guide that helps you win him over even if he wasn't initially interested in you.